Valentine's Appeal: Men, Be Men Again... So, We Can Become Women - Let's Restore Balance to the Universe

Have you ever wondered why such a huge percentage of people today are dissatisfied, or even unhappy? We live in times when we no longer suffer from a lack of resources, we have relatively good living conditions, a safe environment and low crime compared to history, we are not fighting day by day for a piece of bread... But still, we are constantly missing something.

I don't have a recipe for everything, but the situation I want to talk about today concerns many people around. And I won't lie, me personally as well. It is a gender imbalance. Not about discrimination, not about pay inequality... It's about an imbalance that we as a society have mostly caused ourselves.

I am afraid my lines may make many of you angry. But believe me, that is not the goal. Nor do I intend to return the world to Victorian times and cast women back into obscurity and anonymity, when their main task was to take care of the family, support and adore their husband no matter what. Even if he was an alcoholic and a bully. No, that's not really my point...

I am extremely proud of women. I'm happy that we were able to break out of stereotypes. Today, I guess, there is generally no doubt that a woman can do most of what a man can do. I know ladies who are skilled programmers, builders who can fix cars, even those who run large companies or fly airplanes. They do it because they love it.

However, I consider it a tragedy of today's world if society assumes that we are all like that... And still - without a break. The situation reaches the point where we ourselves often feel guilty if this is not the case. And so, we try, we struggle, we make progress and step by step we get more and more on the wave of masculine energy.

And as if that wasn't enough in itself, many men have stepped out of their natural role and simply forgotten how to be men. We wanted you to be more sensitive, but not oversensitive. We wanted you to be more understanding, but not opinionated. We wanted your respect, but we didn't want you to sacrifice yours.

Emancipation and fight for women's rights were inevitable in the context of history. But they brought us to the point where we have perfect mess in gender roles. Two genders are not enough for us, there are young people who consider themselves "it" or even "they". And that really scares me.

We live in a society where the natural energy of the sexes has been disrupted and there has been complete confusion. And as men forget to be men, women are even forced to accept male energy as their own more and more. Suddenly we are brave not because we want to, but because someone must be brave. We are strong not because we want to prove something, but because we need to survive. We are combative not to make man's fight easier, but because we feel that no one else will fight for us.

In a world where a man ceases to be a man, a woman must take over his energy and work on this wave most of the time. Must. It's a safety issue. A question of survival.

Each of us has both components within us... We are dual beings. However, for our dual world to be in balance and harmony, it is important that the predominance of our energy corresponds to our gender - that is, the one we feel like and to which we want to proudly declare ourselves.

That's why my Valentine's appeal is aimed primarily at men: I'm asking you - be the men we need again for a sense of security and stability in our lives, so that we can once again become the women full of joy and tenderness – the women that you desire in your lives...

We thank you!

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What is male energy?

• Stable, prudent, predictable, combative, strong, rational, rules-based and rulemaking, logical, reason-driven

What is feminine energy?

• Dynamic, unpredictable, joyful, tender, often irrational, very emotional, not subject to social norms, guided by the heart.